Date Me

My proudest moment: Repotting my plant.

Choose our first date:

  • Sample weird cocktails at a local bar
  • Spend our allowance at the weekend farmer's market
  • Go on a weekday hike and complain about work
This could be us: When Diego asks nicely, I let him be the little spoon.

I'm looking for...

A sharp, emotionally attuned woman who wants to build a life together with a playful, reliable, ambitious man.

My best blue steel

Together we could...

  • Cook a feast for friends πŸ₯—
  • Try all the partner dances πŸ’ƒ
  • Philosophize under the stars πŸ•οΈ
Dating me will look like: Selfies. Lots of selfies.

This year, I really want to...

Finish the manuscript for my book.

Me in the wild: I've done a lot of backpacking in my life. 500 miles in CO, 150 in Kenya, 100 in Nepal, 100 in China. A bit much tbh πŸ˜‚
That one dance trend I nailed: They call this one the "white boy clap."


Male, Straight, Monogamous, Wants Kids, SF but flexible, born 1991, 6 ft

Reach Out!

If you think we might be a fit, please reach out.

You can DM me on Twitter or send me an email at Feel free to just tell me about some part of this document that resonated with you.

You’re also very welcome to introduce me to someone you think I’d be compatible with.

Thank you for reading!

Rhys ❀️


If you want to get a more holistic picture of me, you can see me "in the wild" with:

(But mostly I'm excited to learn about you!)