Date Me

Repotting a plant, smiling — *My proudest moment: Repotting my plant.*

Choose our first date:

Sample weird cocktails at a local bar
Spend our allowance at the weekend farmer's market
Go on a weekday hike and complain about work

Diego resting as the little spoon — *This could be us: When Diego asks nicely, I let him be the little spoon.*

I'm looking for…

A sharp, emotionally attuned woman who wants to build a life together with a playful, reliable, ambitious man.

Together we could…

Cook a feast for friends 🥗
Try all the partner dances 💃
Philosophize under the stars 🏕️

Selfie at Baker Beach — *Dating me will look like: Selfies. Lots of selfies.*

This year, I really want to…

Finish the manuscript for my book.

Backpacking in the wild — *Me in the wild: I've done a lot of backpacking in my life. 500 miles in CO, 150 in Kenya, 100 in Nepal, 100 in China. A bit much tbh 😂*

Dancing at a wedding — *That one dance trend I nailed: They call this one the "white boy clap."*

Deets

Male, Straight, Monogamous, Wants Kids, SF but flexible, born 1991, 6 ft

Reach Out!

If you think we might be a fit, please reach out.

You can DM me on Twitter or send me an email at rhyslindmark@gmail.com. Feel free to just tell me about some part of this document that resonated with you.

You're also very welcome to introduce me to someone you think I'd be compatible with.

Thank you for reading!

Warmth,
Rhys ❤️

If you want to get a more holistic picture of me, you can see me "in the wild" with:

My most recent job, Roote
My YouTube channel, podcast, Goodreads, or Twitter
My Spotify, or a dance I like to host — Erratic Dance
Photo books from backpacking in Colorado or Nepal

(But mostly I'm excited to learn about you!)